On Friday (4/11), Zoe grabbed for the spoon as I was feeding her. I took it as an indication of her wish to feed herself and so passed the spoon to her. Unfortunately, her quest for independence was thwarted by the fact that her motor skills need refining still. First, she stuck the wrong end of the spoon into her mouth. She tried again. This time she got the spoon in the right way, but all the food had fallen out of the spoon by then. Undeterred, she tried again by swinging her hand (with the spoon) far out and then bringing it into her month, which was opened very wide. It was very funny. And it was messy! Needless to say, there was food everywhere. On her bib, on the highchair's tray attachment. On her face. On her hands. No matter. Both Zoe and I were very pleased with her attempts. I think, for now, we are ok with her exploring the various aspects of food and nourishment, sticking all fingers into pureed butternut squash included.
Sunday, April 13, 2008
Zoe Feeds Herself
On Friday (4/11), Zoe grabbed for the spoon as I was feeding her. I took it as an indication of her wish to feed herself and so passed the spoon to her. Unfortunately, her quest for independence was thwarted by the fact that her motor skills need refining still. First, she stuck the wrong end of the spoon into her mouth. She tried again. This time she got the spoon in the right way, but all the food had fallen out of the spoon by then. Undeterred, she tried again by swinging her hand (with the spoon) far out and then bringing it into her month, which was opened very wide. It was very funny. And it was messy! Needless to say, there was food everywhere. On her bib, on the highchair's tray attachment. On her face. On her hands. No matter. Both Zoe and I were very pleased with her attempts. I think, for now, we are ok with her exploring the various aspects of food and nourishment, sticking all fingers into pureed butternut squash included.
Friday, April 11, 2008
Reduce, Reuse and Recycle
I recently decided that driving a Prius and renewing my Sierra Club membership from time to time will not change anything about the direction we - humans - are taking our planet. I am convinced that going at the rate we are going, the planet would be a hostile and inhospitable place with little or no natural beauty before long. The thought of this was frightening before. It is intolerable now after we had Zoe. Dennis and I worry about the planet Zoe will inherit and the kind of life and times she will live in as a result. So rather than whing about the Hummers and SUVs, it is time to do more, starting today, starting with ourselves.
Taking personal responsibility means some lifestyle changes. Thus far, we noted and implemented a few we can make within our power. For example:
1. Hanging clothes out to dry instead of using the dryer.
2. Using cold water wash instead of hot or warm for our laundry.
3. Taking short showers (no more luxuriating!) and turning off the water when lathering.
4. Being more careful with our use of ziplock bags. Reduce and reuse comes to mind. (My mom was the true conservationist after all. She always cleaned and reused the bags, something I pooh-poohed as not hygienic. That said, I did read somewhere about plastic breaking down and all. Perhaps the solution is to stock up on the glass containers and storing everything in them).
5. Reusing the little plastic bags they give out at supermarkets for wrapping vegetables and such in.
6. Driving about less (no more going to the grocery every day or even every other day! Even if Trader Joe's is only 5 miles down the road, every little adds up).
7. Stopping at Starbucks less for my "Doppio over ice in a grande cup." The plastic cups, even if recycled, add up! (This will be a really hard one).
There are a few other things I would like to do but they require a greater investment in time (research), money and effort. They are:
1. Turning to renewable sources of energy. That is, solar power. On this, I looked into the investment needed and, not surprisingly, even after hefty government subsidy (in the form of rebate) and tax credit, it is still an $18,000 to $20,000 investment. Sure, we would be done with electric bill for good, and might even make some spare cash by selling unused energy back to the grid, but the upfront cost is too much for now. I'm researching the other alternative, which is to buy our electric energy from a solar company. They will install the solar panels on our roof and we buy the energy from them. The upfront cost is little, our immediate electric bill will amount to just about the same (on average $300 a month, including gas), but long term cost will be much lower as the $/watt is locked in. I'm still studying this avenue and will have a better picture of cost/benefit when I meet the salesperson (Business is very brisk evidently, he told me he would have to get back to me in a week or two!).
2. Reducing our waste, or waste that ends up in a landfill. To do this, other than buying less and buying less with lots of packaging, we would have to turn to composting. I'm researching this and will soon find out if this is something we can manage.
3. On reducing our waste, I'm also looking into the diaper question. Zoe is on disposable diapers, which I did not realize take a whooping 500 years to break down. (And this is 500 years in optimal conditions). Zoe uses about six to eight diapers a day, which means, assuming she is potty trained at 24 months and averaging 7 diapers a day, we would have used about 5110 by the time she is two years old! The eco-impact per child is significant. That said, we did not even consider cloth because the hassle of cloth seemed daunting to both Dennis and I. They did not seem to work as well (in terms of leaks and dampness and associated diaper rash) and cleaning the soiled diapers would be very time consuming. Then, there is the whole issue of the other resources (water and electricity) used to clean the diapers. It seemed like a toss up, a choose your sin situation. Well, I might be changing my mind about this. Turns out that the cloth diapers I had in mind were the cloth diapers of 30 years ago. These days, the cloth diapers (and the panties holding them) works very well, supposedly. So it seems that the crux of the issue is resource usage (including resource used to make the diaper). On this, I'm still studying and considering.
Incidentally, during my research, I came across these two products on the market. One is a hybrid system (gdiapers) where the diaper core is biodegradable and the other is a disposable that is completely biodegradable. But as I learned by reading various mommy blogs, to say something is biodegradable is not saying much. If the biodegradable item ends up in a landfill, it would have a hard time decomposing as landfills in America are anaerobic. If we do end up with the disposable diaper that is biodegradable, I would try to compost it. Well, if I end up composting.
3. Finally, though this is only tangentially related to lowering our carbon footprint, I would like to grow our own organic vegetables. I love the idea but gardening is very daunting to me. My fingers are far from green. I'll report here if I ever get around to it. It seems a natural thing to do if I do end up composting.
Well, that's what we are doing for now. I have to say that some of this lifestyle changes is only possible because I am now a stay-at-home-mom (gasp! I said it!). For example, the drying the clothes out on a rack was almost a whole day affair as there were more clothes than rack space. A working mother or father would probably have little patience with or time for it.
Anyhow, we hope it is not too late to turn back the clock or to change course. This is not only for Zoe. It is for all the babies out there. Baby animals included.
Taking personal responsibility means some lifestyle changes. Thus far, we noted and implemented a few we can make within our power. For example:
1. Hanging clothes out to dry instead of using the dryer.
2. Using cold water wash instead of hot or warm for our laundry.
3. Taking short showers (no more luxuriating!) and turning off the water when lathering.
4. Being more careful with our use of ziplock bags. Reduce and reuse comes to mind. (My mom was the true conservationist after all. She always cleaned and reused the bags, something I pooh-poohed as not hygienic. That said, I did read somewhere about plastic breaking down and all. Perhaps the solution is to stock up on the glass containers and storing everything in them).
5. Reusing the little plastic bags they give out at supermarkets for wrapping vegetables and such in.
6. Driving about less (no more going to the grocery every day or even every other day! Even if Trader Joe's is only 5 miles down the road, every little adds up).
7. Stopping at Starbucks less for my "Doppio over ice in a grande cup." The plastic cups, even if recycled, add up! (This will be a really hard one).
There are a few other things I would like to do but they require a greater investment in time (research), money and effort. They are:
1. Turning to renewable sources of energy. That is, solar power. On this, I looked into the investment needed and, not surprisingly, even after hefty government subsidy (in the form of rebate) and tax credit, it is still an $18,000 to $20,000 investment. Sure, we would be done with electric bill for good, and might even make some spare cash by selling unused energy back to the grid, but the upfront cost is too much for now. I'm researching the other alternative, which is to buy our electric energy from a solar company. They will install the solar panels on our roof and we buy the energy from them. The upfront cost is little, our immediate electric bill will amount to just about the same (on average $300 a month, including gas), but long term cost will be much lower as the $/watt is locked in. I'm still studying this avenue and will have a better picture of cost/benefit when I meet the salesperson (Business is very brisk evidently, he told me he would have to get back to me in a week or two!).
2. Reducing our waste, or waste that ends up in a landfill. To do this, other than buying less and buying less with lots of packaging, we would have to turn to composting. I'm researching this and will soon find out if this is something we can manage.
3. On reducing our waste, I'm also looking into the diaper question. Zoe is on disposable diapers, which I did not realize take a whooping 500 years to break down. (And this is 500 years in optimal conditions). Zoe uses about six to eight diapers a day, which means, assuming she is potty trained at 24 months and averaging 7 diapers a day, we would have used about 5110 by the time she is two years old! The eco-impact per child is significant. That said, we did not even consider cloth because the hassle of cloth seemed daunting to both Dennis and I. They did not seem to work as well (in terms of leaks and dampness and associated diaper rash) and cleaning the soiled diapers would be very time consuming. Then, there is the whole issue of the other resources (water and electricity) used to clean the diapers. It seemed like a toss up, a choose your sin situation. Well, I might be changing my mind about this. Turns out that the cloth diapers I had in mind were the cloth diapers of 30 years ago. These days, the cloth diapers (and the panties holding them) works very well, supposedly. So it seems that the crux of the issue is resource usage (including resource used to make the diaper). On this, I'm still studying and considering.
Incidentally, during my research, I came across these two products on the market. One is a hybrid system (gdiapers) where the diaper core is biodegradable and the other is a disposable that is completely biodegradable. But as I learned by reading various mommy blogs, to say something is biodegradable is not saying much. If the biodegradable item ends up in a landfill, it would have a hard time decomposing as landfills in America are anaerobic. If we do end up with the disposable diaper that is biodegradable, I would try to compost it. Well, if I end up composting.
3. Finally, though this is only tangentially related to lowering our carbon footprint, I would like to grow our own organic vegetables. I love the idea but gardening is very daunting to me. My fingers are far from green. I'll report here if I ever get around to it. It seems a natural thing to do if I do end up composting.
Well, that's what we are doing for now. I have to say that some of this lifestyle changes is only possible because I am now a stay-at-home-mom (gasp! I said it!). For example, the drying the clothes out on a rack was almost a whole day affair as there were more clothes than rack space. A working mother or father would probably have little patience with or time for it.
Anyhow, we hope it is not too late to turn back the clock or to change course. This is not only for Zoe. It is for all the babies out there. Baby animals included.
Wednesday, April 2, 2008
FIrst Words?
Zoe is developing so quickly. Both Dennis and I think that she said her first recognizable words today - "Ah Pa" and "Yao," which is Dad and want in Chinese respectively. She said Ah-Pa and Pa many times over today. And I thought I heard "Yao" when I was feeding her. We are very excited!
Another first: I snipped off a little of Zoe's hair on 3/31. Just a little to keep her hair tidy.
Another first: I snipped off a little of Zoe's hair on 3/31. Just a little to keep her hair tidy.
Friday, March 28, 2008
Molto Italiano
Aside from the Gourmet Cookbook, Mario Batali's Molto Italiano is the most used - in terms of recipes tried - cookbook in our collection. We must have cooked more than 20 meals using the cookbook since we acquired it last December. Some pages are already stained with grease marks. So far, except for or perhaps in spite of one outright disaster and two or three dishes we decided were "just ok", the book is a winner.
Our favorite recipes include tagliatelle with sausage, basil and sun-dried tomatoes (Tagliatelle con Salsiccia), "weeds" with sausage (Gramigne con Salsiccia), Pici with Lamb Sauce (Pici col Sugo d'Agnello), Chicken in the style of Canzano (Pollo Canzanese), the devil's chicken (Pollo al Diavolo), and T-bone Fiorentina (Bistecca alla Fiorentina). These are simply fabulous.
The total disaster I mentioned is not even a total disaster in the true sense of the word. The dish - green fettuccine with chicken livers (Fettuccine Verdi ai Fegatini) - probably tasted the way it was intended to taste. The only problem was that neither of us appreciated the sauce that was in-your-face liver. I love liver normally, but that was too much for me even. We'll never try that dish again!
I should add that the Batali could not have meant "two 28 ounche cans whole tomatoes" in his Basic Tomato Sauce, for the resulting sauce is thin and bland, even after more than an hour of simmering (the recipe calls for just about 30 minutes to reduce sauce to a consistency that is "as thick as hot cereal." In fact, it took around five tries before I finally got a sauce that befits Batali's name and I realized that the problem is one too many cans of tomatoes.
We are looking forward to trying the other recipes in the book. It's been fun - and yummy - thus far.
Our favorite recipes include tagliatelle with sausage, basil and sun-dried tomatoes (Tagliatelle con Salsiccia), "weeds" with sausage (Gramigne con Salsiccia), Pici with Lamb Sauce (Pici col Sugo d'Agnello), Chicken in the style of Canzano (Pollo Canzanese), the devil's chicken (Pollo al Diavolo), and T-bone Fiorentina (Bistecca alla Fiorentina). These are simply fabulous.
The total disaster I mentioned is not even a total disaster in the true sense of the word. The dish - green fettuccine with chicken livers (Fettuccine Verdi ai Fegatini) - probably tasted the way it was intended to taste. The only problem was that neither of us appreciated the sauce that was in-your-face liver. I love liver normally, but that was too much for me even. We'll never try that dish again!
I should add that the Batali could not have meant "two 28 ounche cans whole tomatoes" in his Basic Tomato Sauce, for the resulting sauce is thin and bland, even after more than an hour of simmering (the recipe calls for just about 30 minutes to reduce sauce to a consistency that is "as thick as hot cereal." In fact, it took around five tries before I finally got a sauce that befits Batali's name and I realized that the problem is one too many cans of tomatoes.
We are looking forward to trying the other recipes in the book. It's been fun - and yummy - thus far.
First Happy Hour With Zoe
Our first Happy Hour with Zoe! It was such a good idea. Dennis got home a little earlier than usual today and said, "Honey, instead of going for a walk, what do you think of us going to Del Mar for a drink? We could find some place nice to watch the sunset." Quite naturally, I agreed. We got to Del Mar Plaza in time to snag us one of the last tables to be had at the outdoors area of Il Fornaio. It was quite wonderful. The sun was hanging low on the horizon, the air was cool, and the scene was friendly. Very friendly in fact since there were quite a few parents with babies or young children about. We were not alone. It is a good life where the husband comes home to suggest going out for a nice drink, getting a nice drink (Chardonnay in my case and a beer for Dennis), a beautiful child on our lap and loving looks between us.
Wednesday, March 26, 2008
Sunday, March 23, 2008
Amazing Weekend
It is now Sunday afternoon. Dennis and I are both in the living room, respective computers on our laps, chilling out. A rarity! It's been a great weekend, complete, full and yet not hectic. Yesterday, we took baby out to Anza Borrego Dessert State Park for our first real family hike. We choose the Borrego Palm Canyon trail because it is 1. only three miles in length roundtrip 2. right next to the visitor center and enjoys high traffic, which means it is "safe" 3. supposedly very beautiful right now as Anza Borrego is having a good wild flowers season (after the recent bouts of rain) 4. Dennis hasn't been.
The entire outing was a splendid success. The hike was beautiful and, more importantly, baby did very well. She slept on the way there - which means she got her morning nap - and she took to the backpack carrier very well. In fact, she slept on the trail too (I suppose the motion is very soothing). We did, however, stop twice during the hike up to the oasis (our destination on the Palm Canyon Trail) to feed baby and to give her a break. We also took a nice lunch break under the shade of the palms. It was really quite wonderful. I did not know this before, but Borrego Palm Canyon Trail is a very popular trail. I have never seen so many children on a trail before. I suppose they are there for the same reasons we chose the trail. Incidentally, it is quite spectacular a trail. There in the middle of the dessert is a stream, a full sized gurgling stream wide enough at places for children to go dipping in, and a colony of palms. You have to see it to appreciate it.
We stopped at Santa Ysabel at the Julian Pie Company for Apple Pie. Well, we stopped for Dennis to have his apple pie since neither Zoe and I can have any (no dairy!). Dennis is generally a very happy man. But he was an especially happy man after he had his pie.
Then, today, we took Zoe to Church for her first Easter service. Again, she did well. We did have to leave part way through for a little as she decided to babble loudly. But we returned in time for her to participate in communion. More importantly, she loved absolutely beautiful in her pink dress and hat.
So here we are, back at home. An hour or so has passed since I started writing this post. Zoe has refused to nap and so we finally took her out of her crib for her to play out in the living room. She's missing her nap time, and so will probably end up going to bed by 6 pm today. Early, but it's the weekend.
It's a warm and beautiful day with summer in the air already. I imagine this portends a scorching summer to come. But for now, we have the windows open and it's lovely to hear the birds chirping and the leaves rustling outside.
Friday, March 21, 2008
New Toy - Or Not.
Zoe was entertained by this Disney "It's a Small World" toy yesterday (a gift from our cousin Ryan). She showed great dexterity with her fingers by plugging - or banging - out the little plastic figures and then picking them up with the pincer movement. She wanted the little figures out of the boat! Every time I stuck them back into the boat, she complained very vigorously.
Unfortunately, we decided to remove this great toy from her. Dennis and I wondered this morning about the safety of the toy, which is made in China. We wondered about the paint on the little figures, which she was gnawing on happily, and decided to remove it. It's silly of course, her teethers are all made in China. What's to say those things are non-toxic too?
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